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If we look at the way the world and universe around us unfolds, we can see that it does so according to certain laws. We can see the way galaxies spiral, the way a solar system orbits, the way planets spin, and the way seasons change. Not two things are exactly alike, but the processes that determine their possibility are predetermined by the laws that govern them.

We can see it in a human life as well. An egg and a sperm enjoin, and a baby develops according to DNA and genetic coding. We can also see that all newborns eventually grow and develop through the phases of childhood and eventually become adults. We can see that adults are programmed to procreate and continue the species. And we also know that at some point, every human life will come to an end. These are some of the automatic processes that govern our lives.

But the human also has aspects to it that are not automatic, such as consciousness and freedom of choice. These two attributes alone separate us from everything else on this planet. And they also offer the greatest gift available for a living thing: freedom from automation.

That’s why it’s interesting to see how we, as a species, try to do things in repetition, as if we are automating ourselves. We like to live in the same place for long periods of time – maybe even generations. We like to wake or sleep at the same times each day. We eat the same meals in some sort of loose rotation. We got to an office and work for most of our adult lives.

These are all ways that we automate ourselves. But that is a cultural training, it’s not really us. Most us dream about freedom, whether it is freedom from worry, or limitations, or freedom to go where we please when we please. Those are much more natural inclinations for us.

We aren’t meant to do things repetitively, except in the way that repetition allows us to automate certain skills in us, like riding a bike or driving a car. That’s a kind of automation that actually frees our minds up to do other things – new things. Automation is meant to give us freedom.

And yet all the technological advances we produce only serve to enslave us more deeply. Doesn’t that seem odd? Computers can do more, robots can do more, machines of all kinds can do things we used to have to do for ourselves. That should be great. Every new invention should be a way to free ourselves even more.

Only the narrowest view of human life – only the greatest of misunderstandings – would allow us to settle for a life of automation and repetition instead of freedom and exploration. And yet, as a species, we have. What is happening here on earth might just be the saddest story ever written. We have so much potential.

And that is why I say that the first order of business for the human today is to close the gap between what we think we are: cubicle-sitting wage earners,  and what we really are: glorious beings designed to explore and experience life – consciously and freely – for the purposes of helping improve the possibilities of the whole universe.

Which job description would you apply for? Which job do you currently have?

Somewhere deep inside us, we understand these truths. But it is up to us to make it so. No corporation or government leader is going to tell us these things – it runs against their agenda which requires keeping everyone on automatic pilot.

But the purposes of human life are here for us to discover. We can still write the ending of this human story, if we freely choose to, because the end doesn’t have to be determined automatically.

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Yesterday I began with the thought: I don’t love this life. I love what makes it possible. And that is a very impersonal view. I think it’s worth trying to understand what taking an impersonal view toward life entails. After all, we only know our own experiences – what else is there?

An impersonal view of life is really just a perspective. Let’s think about the weather. The fact that it’s cold out, or hot, is not personal to me. If I’m in a rush and there’s a traffic jam, it isn’t personal to me. The sun rising or setting, high tide or low tide, the wind, the rain – none of these are about me personally, though they surely do effect how I go about my day.

How about a boss yelling at me? Or a family member criticizing one of my decisions? Before we answer that, have we considered the pressures a boss might be under? Or the journey through life that has caused a loved one to be critical? We all bring so much baggage to the present moment, it is usually that baggage that is in play, and not truly who we are.

When we act impatiently, or unkindly, toward others, isn’t that just a reflection of something personal going on in our lives? We’re tired, we have a nagging pain, we feel short of money, we feel alone, we haven’t taken care of something that we know we should have sorted out. All our interactions with fellow humans in a given day are, for the most part, acts of one person (or group) reacting, from a personal perspective, toward another. Often, we don’t even know why we say certain things or why we do certain things.

So much of the trouble and stress we encounter is actually caused by people acting personally in situations where it’s inappropriate. When someone says something mean, they act personally. The worst thing we can do is act personally in response, because that just feeds the fire that has been lit.

In this sense, we spend all of our lives reacting personally to others who are also acting personally. It’s the most contagious virus I can imagine. So the idea here is to break that cycle.

When you think about it, all our sensitivity, all our brain power, and all our intuitive insight is part of a design that is meant to give us information about what is going on around us. When that information triggers a prior experience, it becomes personal to us – but that is a learned behavior, not a natural one. With all the TV shows highlighting forensic investigations, it’s clear that the answers to every puzzle lie in the assessment of the data, not in anyone’s personal feelings about the data. And more data is always better.

So it should be with us as we go through our life. We should examine all the data available to us and act in the most sensible way – in a way that serves our purposes. We have an incredible ability to detect what is going on in others, yet we can’t control others – we can only control what effects us.

How does that play out in real life? Well, if someone is rude or mean to us, we can understand that they are going through some difficulty of their own. They are most likely doing it unconsciously from some old pattern that is playing through them. That’s a human perspective. We can either choose to not take part and keep moving or, if it is a situation we need to stay in, we can have compassion for (or stay neutral toward) whatever it is that they are dealing with, as we might hope another would have for us in a similar situation.

And it doesn’t mean we aren’t engaged in life. The fact of it is, if we are truly forensic about what we experience – in and of itself, without prior baggage – we will be in a much better position to make the next right decision as we continue on our way. Being on an emotional roller coaster all day long is incredibly draining and doesn’t help us do anything.

Feelings themselves are beautiful – they are what make us truly human – when we are conscious about them. Taking an impersonal view toward life doesn’t imply detachment, it points to a deeper, more subtle understanding of the way things really are.

How often have we hoped to accomplish something and known that we needed to see the facts clearly and state our case succinctly to have success? So we make a list of pros and cons, or we take a walk to clear our head. Well the journey of life requires just such clarity to navigate it in the most productive, least stressful way.

When we take that first step back from personal involvement, we will quickly see how personally involved everyone else is. And in that moment we will know that it is not a natural, or healthy, way for us to proceed.

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Sometimes things aren’t meant to be immediately understood. Sometimes they need to brew in you before they find their connections to other things. I lived in New York City for many years, and it’s a place of strange beauty, and a certain kind of crowded anonymity.

Yet recently I took a ride on the subway, and as I looked around I had the feeling that everyone I saw, I had seen somewhere before. It was a sense of really recognizing people, as if there were no strangers. I don’t often have a sense of oneness with the universe in a subway train, but it gave me a great feeling of comfort.

It is said that our spirit is a part of God in each of us. We all have it – every human ever born. So no matter what our differences, the most important piece of us we have in common. The trouble is, we don’t often remember or recognize that fact.

But it’s really beautiful when we do. If, when we look at those we know well, or have never met, we think: in them is the same godly spirit that enlivens me. In that moment we can recognize the tremendous courage people have within them. We can see that we all struggle for meaning in our lives, against great odds, and against a culture that not only doesn’t reward meaning, but that actively seeks to destroy it.

Yesterday I spoke of the idea that we are coded to recognize the purpose of our lives – it sits in us and only needs to be awakened. It’s not something that we have to learn, it’s something that we have to feel, something that we have to choose.

Inhale. Exhale.

Deeply. Again.

Feel the planet we are on. Feel the universe around us. Feel the spirit within that stirs, when, for a moment, we let go of the trappings of our lives and let our humanness connect to all the things that it has a relationship with.

And that is every thing. We are connected to every thing. And we can feel that if we let ourselves feel it – if we get quiet and listen. Like love for a glass of water, the taste of tea, a piece of fruit, a flower, a tree, a pet fish, a mountain, the clouds, the sky, the sun, and all the stars stretching to the edge of time. And every other human alive today, or even those long gone.

We are all deeply connected. Today is not just another day – it is everything that has ever happened, and every possibility and permission for what can happen. It is in that dense weave that we find ourselves, so fortunate to have a view of both it and ourselves. So fortunate to be able to discover it in our own way.

Each new moment is unknown to us. But that’s the good news, because why would we want it any other way? Our comfort comes from knowing that we are all part of one thing, and that what we are is connected to that one thing through our spirit, our soul, and through all the cells in our body. We are no different from it, we are only different in our experience of it.

That is what we should celebrate in one another. That is how we can feel that part of God, in us, and in others. Ultimately, that is what makes us human, and the more we can recognize that truth in ourselves, the more we will begin to see it in everyone else.

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